When you’re contemplating ending a relationship, even one that’s not right for you, there will be difficult emotions you’ll have to deal with, and that’s perfectly ok. You’ve got to understand that sometimes, it’s hard but that doesn’t make it not right. Take away every justification, denial or explanation, and at the end of it, you’ll still have an unhealthy relationship. Find every… Read More
One of the questions i get asked often is this, “How do i know if they’re the right person for me?” Now, admittedly, this is a question that has flummoxed me in the past too. I mean seriously, how do you know? Most people who are dating *think* they know the qualities that they are looking for in the other… Read More
Back in my good ole dating days, i used to have this thing where if i liked someone and it seemed like they weren’t interested, i’d still keep my hopes up UNTIL i had a ‘clear’ indication that were in fact, not interested. Since then, i’ve found out that this is actually much more common than i thought. Why do we do this? Why do we keep up our hopes even when we know deep down that the other party isn’t interested? A lot of it comes down to how confident you are in handling rejection. When we are not confident about ourselves, we need validation from others about our relationship worthiness. We tend to take err..rejections personally. We see it as a rejection of us and that hurts.
One of the things that is surprising yet largely true is that most people find it difficult to explain what is it that they’re looking for, whether it’s while dating or pursuing a relationship. That’s fine, so long as they know what they want but do they? Most of us just assume that we’ll know when we meet the right person…. Read More
Are you the kind that reads too much into other people’s actions and behavior? And then get stressed out over what they think of you? Because i’ll be honest, i used to do that till a couple of years ago. I would dissect each and every thing i said or did in any difficult situation, and try to make sense… Read More
If you’ve ever been in a relationship with an emotionally unavailable man aka the MANBOY you would know that there is no clarity to anything, everything seems oh so vague including their ability to decide whether they’re in it or not. No matter how much you rack your brains about why it’s happening, no matter what you do.. nothing seems… Read More