Emotional baggage is such a loaded word. It somehow conjures up this vision of a unhappy broken person, who's unable to look after themselves. Maybe that's why people don't like to think much about it. It's a difficult thing to deal with. A lot of people just feel overwhelmed at the thought of … [Read more...] about Getting Rid Of Emotional Baggage
When you're contemplating ending a relationship, even one that's not right for you, there will be difficult emotions you'll have to deal with, and that's perfectly ok. You've got to understand that sometimes, it's hard but that doesn't make it not right. Take away every justification, denial or … [Read more...] about Overcoming The Struggle to End A Relationship
Back in my good ole dating days, i used to have this thing where if i liked someone and it seemed like they weren't interested, i'd still keep my hopes up UNTIL i had a 'clear' indication that were in fact, not interested. Since then, i've found out that this is actually much more common than i … [Read more...] about Dating Rejection Isn’t Always Verbal
Are you the kind that reads too much into other people's actions and behavior? And then get stressed out over what they think of you? Because i'll be honest, i used to do that till a couple of years ago. I would dissect each and every thing i said or did in any difficult situation, and try to make … [Read more...] about It’s Not About You
If you've ever been in a relationship with an emotionally unavailable man aka the MANBOY you would know that there is no clarity to anything, everything seems oh so vague including their ability to decide whether they're in it or not. No matter how much you rack your brains about why it's happening, … [Read more...] about Are You Waiting For Someone To Make Up Their Mind About You?
" But he's got it all wrong! If only i'd explained why X Y or Z happened.. maybe he'd still care about me.." If you have been in a relationship with an immature aka emotionally unavailable man, chances are when anything goes wrong in that relationship you become The Defender. By that, i mean you … [Read more...] about Defending Yourself – When You Feel You Have To Keep Justifying Things To Them