When you're contemplating ending a relationship, even one that's not right for you, there will be difficult emotions you'll have to deal with, and that's perfectly ok. You've got to understand that sometimes, it's hard but that doesn't make it not right. Take away every justification, denial or … [Read more...] about Overcoming The Struggle to End A Relationship
Are you the kind that reads too much into other people's actions and behavior? And then get stressed out over what they think of you? Because i'll be honest, i used to do that till a couple of years ago. I would dissect each and every thing i said or did in any difficult situation, and try to make … [Read more...] about It’s Not About You
A few months back i got an email from this guy i once dated.. things hadn't worked out and we went our seperate ways. It got me excited and just after i did a fist pump in the air, i paused and thought, "what is it about this situation that is making me feel this way?" Clearly we weren't together … [Read more...] about The Importance of Learning To Self Validate When You Feel Rejected
One of the first things which struck me after being single again is how much time i'd actually spent trying to go back and forth, trying to make a wrong relationship right, explaining, convincing (mostly myself) that we ought to give it one more shot. Of course, when i became disappointed as usual, … [Read more...] about When you just can’t let go of them.. or can you?
One of the things that's particularly difficult to handle in life is rejection, more so while dating. Some people even avoid the process of dating so that they don't have to cope with any potential 'rejections'. I'm going to be honest with you here - yes dating does involve some amount of rejection … [Read more...] about Dealing with Dating Rejection