Back in my good ole dating days, i used to have this thing where if i liked someone and it seemed like they weren't interested, i'd still keep my hopes up UNTIL i had a 'clear' indication that were in fact, not interested. Since then, i've found out that this is actually much more common than i … [Read more...] about Dating Rejection Isn’t Always Verbal
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Are you the kind that reads too much into other people's actions and behavior? And then get stressed out over what they think of you? Because i'll be honest, i used to do that till a couple of years ago. I would dissect each and every thing i said or did in any difficult situation, and try to make … [Read more...] about It’s Not About You
" But he's got it all wrong! If only i'd explained why X Y or Z happened.. maybe he'd still care about me.." If you have been in a relationship with an immature aka emotionally unavailable man, chances are when anything goes wrong in that relationship you become The Defender. By that, i mean you … [Read more...] about Defending Yourself – When You Feel You Have To Keep Justifying Things To Them
One of the questions that often used to pop up in my mind after i became single again is this - where does one even begin in order to be in a happy relationship? While things like knowing your values helps, we can't get to that place if we are not completely honest with ourselves. I learnt this … [Read more...] about Being Honest with Yourself
One of the first things which struck me after being single again is how much time i'd actually spent trying to go back and forth, trying to make a wrong relationship right, explaining, convincing (mostly myself) that we ought to give it one more shot. Of course, when i became disappointed as usual, … [Read more...] about When you just can’t let go of them.. or can you?