Emotional baggage is such a loaded word. It somehow conjures up this vision of a unhappy broken person, who's unable to look after themselves. Maybe that's why people don't like to think much about it. It's a difficult thing to deal with. A lot of people just feel overwhelmed at the thought of … [Read more...] about Getting Rid Of Emotional Baggage
Having spent time talking to people and observing certain behaviors including my own over the years, i've noticed that very few people really have a sense or awareness of who they are and what they are about. Because many of us don't really think about what really makes us US. In fact, it's … [Read more...] about Learning To Stop Letting External Factors Like Education, Looks or Career Define Who You Are
" But he's got it all wrong! If only i'd explained why X Y or Z happened.. maybe he'd still care about me.." If you have been in a relationship with an immature aka emotionally unavailable man, chances are when anything goes wrong in that relationship you become The Defender. By that, i mean you … [Read more...] about Defending Yourself – When You Feel You Have To Keep Justifying Things To Them
The guy you like is best friends with his ex, its a situation not many plan to be in, but there it is. So what do you do? Insist he cut off all ties with his ex or learn to accept her as a part of his life? Not all relationships end in a nice way but few do and your boyfriend and his ex may have … [Read more...] about The guy i’m dating is best friends with his ex.. what do i do?