When you're contemplating ending a relationship, even one that's not right for you, there will be difficult emotions you'll have to deal with, and that's perfectly ok. You've got to understand that sometimes, it's hard but that doesn't make it not right. Take away every justification, denial or … [Read more...] about Overcoming The Struggle to End A Relationship
Are you the kind that reads too much into other people's actions and behavior? And then get stressed out over what they think of you? Because i'll be honest, i used to do that till a couple of years ago. I would dissect each and every thing i said or did in any difficult situation, and try to make … [Read more...] about It’s Not About You
If you've ever been in a relationship with an emotionally unavailable man aka the MANBOY you would know that there is no clarity to anything, everything seems oh so vague including their ability to decide whether they're in it or not. No matter how much you rack your brains about why it's happening, … [Read more...] about Are You Waiting For Someone To Make Up Their Mind About You?
" But he's got it all wrong! If only i'd explained why X Y or Z happened.. maybe he'd still care about me.." If you have been in a relationship with an immature aka emotionally unavailable man, chances are when anything goes wrong in that relationship you become The Defender. By that, i mean you … [Read more...] about Defending Yourself – When You Feel You Have To Keep Justifying Things To Them
One of the questions that often used to pop up in my mind after i became single again is this - where does one even begin in order to be in a happy relationship? While things like knowing your values helps, we can't get to that place if we are not completely honest with ourselves. I learnt this … [Read more...] about Being Honest with Yourself
A lot of times when we start to move on from a pattern of self destructing relationships to a healthier sense of self, we keep getting pulled back into our old ways. This is because as much as it is worth it, unfortunately getting rid of a lifetime of poor choices and developing a healthy … [Read more...] about When You Expect Someone To Change Just Because You Did… No, Not Gonna Happen.