When you're contemplating ending a relationship, even one that's not right for you, there will be difficult emotions you'll have to deal with, and that's perfectly ok. You've got to understand that sometimes, it's hard but that doesn't make it not right. Take away every justification, denial or … [Read more...] about Overcoming The Struggle to End A Relationship
Back in my good ole dating days, i used to have this thing where if i liked someone and it seemed like they weren't interested, i'd still keep my hopes up UNTIL i had a 'clear' indication that were in fact, not interested. Since then, i've found out that this is actually much more common than i … [Read more...] about Dating Rejection Isn’t Always Verbal
Are you the kind that reads too much into other people's actions and behavior? And then get stressed out over what they think of you? Because i'll be honest, i used to do that till a couple of years ago. I would dissect each and every thing i said or did in any difficult situation, and try to make … [Read more...] about It’s Not About You
Having spent time talking to people and observing certain behaviors including my own over the years, i've noticed that very few people really have a sense or awareness of who they are and what they are about. Because many of us don't really think about what really makes us US. In fact, it's … [Read more...] about Learning To Stop Letting External Factors Like Education, Looks or Career Define Who You Are
One of the questions that often used to pop up in my mind after i became single again is this - where does one even begin in order to be in a happy relationship? While things like knowing your values helps, we can't get to that place if we are not completely honest with ourselves. I learnt this … [Read more...] about Being Honest with Yourself
A lot of times when we start to move on from a pattern of self destructing relationships to a healthier sense of self, we keep getting pulled back into our old ways. This is because as much as it is worth it, unfortunately getting rid of a lifetime of poor choices and developing a healthy … [Read more...] about When You Expect Someone To Change Just Because You Did… No, Not Gonna Happen.