Whether you're dating, in a relationship or just going through a difficult life experience, a feeling of confusion and uncertainty often takes over. During my 20s i was really clueless about a lot of things like the concept of personal boundaries and what sort of behavior is acceptable or not.. and … [Read more...] about 10 Basic Principles To Follow In Dating, Relationships And Life
Emotional baggage is such a loaded word. It somehow conjures up this vision of a unhappy broken person, who's unable to look after themselves. Maybe that's why people don't like to think much about it. It's a difficult thing to deal with. A lot of people just feel overwhelmed at the thought of … [Read more...] about Getting Rid Of Emotional Baggage
Are you the kind that reads too much into other people's actions and behavior? And then get stressed out over what they think of you? Because i'll be honest, i used to do that till a couple of years ago. I would dissect each and every thing i said or did in any difficult situation, and try to make … [Read more...] about It’s Not About You
If you've ever been in a relationship with an emotionally unavailable man aka the MANBOY you would know that there is no clarity to anything, everything seems oh so vague including their ability to decide whether they're in it or not. No matter how much you rack your brains about why it's happening, … [Read more...] about Are You Waiting For Someone To Make Up Their Mind About You?
Having spent time talking to people and observing certain behaviors including my own over the years, i've noticed that very few people really have a sense or awareness of who they are and what they are about. Because many of us don't really think about what really makes us US. In fact, it's … [Read more...] about Learning To Stop Letting External Factors Like Education, Looks or Career Define Who You Are
" But he's got it all wrong! If only i'd explained why X Y or Z happened.. maybe he'd still care about me.." If you have been in a relationship with an immature aka emotionally unavailable man, chances are when anything goes wrong in that relationship you become The Defender. By that, i mean you … [Read more...] about Defending Yourself – When You Feel You Have To Keep Justifying Things To Them