Emotional baggage is such a loaded word. It somehow conjures up this vision of a unhappy broken person, who's unable to look after themselves. Maybe that's why people don't like to think much about it. It's a difficult thing to deal with. A lot of people just feel overwhelmed at the thought of … [Read more...] about Getting Rid Of Emotional Baggage
Have you ever been in a situation where you're single and trying to explore your options.. and think, "hmm whatever happened to that guy i dated like three years ago?" You may think you were a different person back then, bad timing et all.. and so it's only fair that you should get another shot at … [Read more...] about Getting Back in Touch with Someone You Dated in The Past
A few months back i got an email from this guy i once dated.. things hadn't worked out and we went our seperate ways. It got me excited and just after i did a fist pump in the air, i paused and thought, "what is it about this situation that is making me feel this way?" Clearly we weren't together … [Read more...] about The Importance of Learning To Self Validate When You Feel Rejected
One of the first things which struck me after being single again is how much time i'd actually spent trying to go back and forth, trying to make a wrong relationship right, explaining, convincing (mostly myself) that we ought to give it one more shot. Of course, when i became disappointed as usual, … [Read more...] about When you just can’t let go of them.. or can you?