One of the things that is surprising yet largely true is that most people find it difficult to explain what is it that they’re looking for, whether it’s while dating or pursuing a relationship. That’s fine, so long as they know what they want but do they? Most of us just assume that we’ll know when we meet the right person. But it’s not so much about them as it is about us and our needs. Do we really pause to think and get clear on our life direction and priorities first? This is key to knowing ... Read More about Know Your Priorities And Deal Breakers Before Dating
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Are you the kind that reads too much into other people's actions and behavior? And then get stressed out over what they think of you? Because i'll be honest, i used to do that till a couple of years ago. I would dissect each and every thing i said or did in any difficult situation, and try to make sense of it. I know a lot of women go bonkers trying to figure out what is it that they have done wrong or what's lacking in them. Unless we have high self esteem, we're likely to think- He's not ... Read More about It’s Not About You
If you've ever been in a relationship with an emotionally unavailable man aka the MANBOY you would know that there is no clarity to anything, everything seems oh so vague including their ability to decide whether they're in it or not. No matter how much you rack your brains about why it's happening, no matter what you do.. nothing seems to be enough. While you're sitting there analysing every bit of the relationship history, often they're happily carrying along. "When you finally realise i'm ... Read More about Are You Waiting For Someone To Make Up Their Mind About You?
Having spent time talking to people and observing certain behaviors including my own over the years, i've noticed that very few people really have a sense or awareness of who they are and what they are about. Because many of us don't really think about what really makes us US. In fact, it's considered a waste of time and silliness to think about how much we really know ourselves. There is a tendency to get so caught up in the external world where things like education, appearance and career ... Read More about Learning To Stop Letting External Factors Like Education, Looks or Career Define Who You Are
" But he's got it all wrong! If only i'd explained why X Y or Z happened.. maybe he'd still care about me.." If you have been in a relationship with an immature aka emotionally unavailable man, chances are when anything goes wrong in that relationship you become The Defender. By that, i mean you tend to defend and justify any perceived failing, misgiving or mistake on your part thinking that if they could only see that it's not your fault then things would be okay. You might feel like ... Read More about Defending Yourself – When You Feel You Have To Keep Justifying Things To Them