A lot of times when we start to move on from a pattern of self destructing relationships to a healthier sense of self, we keep getting pulled back into our old ways. This is because as much as it is worth it, unfortunately getting rid of a lifetime of poor choices and developing a healthy relationship with yourself requires time and patience. One of the things many people particularly seem to struggle with is adjusting their expectations of others, especially the exes. Firstly, i have always ... Read More about When You Expect Someone To Change Just Because You Did… No, Not Gonna Happen.
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A few months back i got an email from this guy i once dated.. things hadn't worked out and we went our seperate ways. It got me excited and just after i did a fist pump in the air, i paused and thought, "what is it about this situation that is making me feel this way?" Clearly we weren't together so why be bothered by something so trivial as an email? It was then as i read it, i realised that it was infact a notification from the email service provider about an email i had sent him quite a ... Read More about The Importance of Learning To Self Validate When You Feel Rejected
The guy you like is best friends with his ex, its a situation not many plan to be in, but there it is. So what do you do? Insist he cut off all ties with his ex or learn to accept her as a part of his life? Not all relationships end in a nice way but few do and your boyfriend and his ex may have decided to remain friends especially if there were already friends prior to the relationship or a long time has passed since they were together. I once dated a guy who was best friends with his ex. ... Read More about The guy i’m dating is best friends with his ex.. what do i do?
One of the first things which struck me after being single again is how much time i'd actually spent trying to go back and forth, trying to make a wrong relationship right, explaining, convincing (mostly myself) that we ought to give it one more shot. Of course, when i became disappointed as usual, i would start with the self doubting, make excuses on their behalf and brace for another drama. This din't really stop even after i broke up, i would still keep going back and still hoping. In my ... Read More about When You Just Can’t Let Go Of Them.. Or Can You?
So you met this guy and clicked with him. You thought things were going really good, but he doesn't call you back. It can be crushing when you think you've met the right guy, had a great date and POOF he disappears! So what do you do when you don't hear back from them? Nothing. You move on. Now i know it feels like a blow to your ego, and its not easy for most people to accept that they don't meet someone's interest. It usually seems worse than it actually is. Dating someone is a matter of ... Read More about We Had A Great Date! Why Didn’t He Call Back?